Most men have some misconceptions when it comes to what women want in bed. They believe that women want a one-night stand and a one-night wonder. They also believe that women only want to please their men and not enjoy lovemaking all the time.
But the truth is that most women want both.
The question is, which type of woman you should give attention to?
It’s usually the woman who wants to be loved and cared for more than the man. If you want to please your woman you should first do everything in your power to make her feel loved and wanted.
Tease her, call her, and throw gifts out to make her feel special. She needs to feel that you have her best interest at heart. What better way to do this than to make love with her?
And if you’re not quite ready to give her that loving touch, then there are ways to please your woman instead.
• Stimulate her clitoris. If you want to give your woman a mind-blowing orgasm, a great way to do it is with your fingers. You can use your fingers to rub, stroke, and suck on her clitoris. A light touch with your fingers on her clitoris can make her moan in pleasure.
• One night, go wild. Instead of giving her your usual lovemaking, try to give her something she has never experienced before. You don’t have to use toys to do this. You can simply use your fingers, lips, tongue, and genitals to please her. If you want to be discreet, you can do it without using any clothes.
• Give her lots of foreplay. If you are inadequate to get her aroused before intercourse, it will be difficult to make her climax through intercourse. Lots of foreplay will also help her to become fully aroused and lubricated, which will make it easier to have intercourse with her.
• Know what you’re doing. This is a mistake most men make. Most men don’t have a clue as to how to please their women in bed. This is because women are very different from men and need different stimulation to get aroused.
Men are visual creatures. They like to see women’s bodies. However, women are multi-sensory. They like to feel, experience, hear, smell and touch things. So you should always take the time to really “pamper” your woman.
You also need to change the way you make love. Most men assume straightaway that women need foreplay and masturbation before they get horny and want sex. This is very wrong.
Women are far more sexual than men. Even though you believe that men are powerful, powerful over women, you are wrong. The more power you have with women, the more foolish you will be. To begin with, you need to take more time in foreplay and seducing your woman before she gets horny.
Then once she is horny and wants you inside her, you can make her climax using simple and easy techniques. There is no secret about it that women can have orgasms from simple and easy things. That’s why; a woman can have multiple orgasms even when you have sex with her for the hundredth time.
No woman will ever tell you she wants an orgasm from you. She just wants to feel that passion from you. That’s why; you need to learn what to do to give your woman multiple orgasms.